Herpes Myths vs Facts
Myth: Only certain sorts of people get herpes.
FACT: Herpes is very common and anyone who has ever had sex can get genital herpes. It's not about being clean, dirty, good or bad - it's just part of being sexually active.
Disclosures
It's natural to be concerned about telling a new sexual partner that you have genital herpes. Fear of being rejected and perhaps being uncomfortable about sexual health concerns makes it a tricky subject to bring up. However, it is more likely that they will respect your openness and honesty and it will be an opportunity to take your relationship to a deeper level of trust and understanding.
Getting Through a New Diagnosis
It is normal to feel upset and distressed as with any new diagnosis of a medical condition. Remember that herpes doesn't discriminate and you don't need to 'blame' yourself for what is actually a very common condition.