Being Gay and Having Herpes

Obviously, the herpes virus doesn't care what sort of sexual activity is creating the right conditions for infection, but different sexual practices create different risks.

Gay women are slightly less likely to become infected than heterosexual women, but for those who do, the impact of the herpes virus is exactly the same.

In the past, genital herpes was much more prevalent among gay men than in heterosexuals. That's no longer the case, partly because more heterosexual couples are having oral sex and becoming infected that way. However, infection through anal sex remains more common among gay men.

It has also been shown that having the herpes virus makes men more susceptible to infection with HIV.

The good news is that there is less stigma attached to all STIs in the gay community, that safer sex practices are widely accepted, and that there is a range of sexual health services specifically aimed at gay men and women. You can find contact details for some of those services on the websites listed at the back of this booklet.

 

Free Download Resources on Genital Herpes

You can also download our guides in pdf form:

PDF-download.png  Genital Herpes - The Facts 
PDF-download.png  Genital Herpes – Myths Vs Facts
PDF-download.png  Herpes and Relationships
PDF-download.png  Herpes and Pregnancy 
PDF-download.png  Facial Herpes 
PDF-download.png  Summary of Genital Herpes Guidelines

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